The following are various thoughts, opinions and advice on homeschooling in general. And they're all mine. You can take them or leave them, but hopefully, you will at least give them a thought or two and maybe even find some of them useful.
General Thoughts:
1. Most important is for you to relax. As totally intimidating as things are right now, it really isn't hard at all. Public school teachers aren't any smarter than you, nor do they possess any special power or knowledge.
2. The mere fact that you care enough to do this will ensure your success.
3. You needn't "bring school home" by emulating a typical classroom setting. You can do what you want, how you want.
Note: My son does spelling while swinging on the swing set. I give him a word to spell and he spells it (or tries anyway). We both enjoy that time immensely.
4. A lot of people use a prepared curriculum their first year. It is certainly not required, but it does help give you a more secure feeling.
5.Be Prepared! You will probably try quite a few things before you find what works best for you. We all have a closet in the house somewhere that is full of things we bought but didn't like. It happens. Don't fret over it. Besides, that's what curriculum swaps are for!
6. Get involved with a support group. It will help you to feel as though your children are being "socialized" which is a concern for most beginners. However, bear in mind that socialization does not mean being surrounded by 30 or 40 children of the same age for 8 hours a day. Socialization is really more about how well a child can interact with people of all ages out in the real world. Fortunately, this is where homeschooling shines. Because our children are not lumped together by age, and are not stuck in a classroom all day, they spend much more time out in the real world learning real social skills.
A support group is also good for the parents as it helps them to see they are not the only ones out there doing this. It's sort of like group therapy. You can also glean a lot of information from fellow homeschoolers.
7.Be Prepared! Homeschoolers are terribly opinionated people and are not afraid to share their opinions with you. It only stands to reason that if we are bold enough and have strong enough feelings to buck the system, that tendency will trickle over to other subjects as well.
8. When you're first starting out, take the time to get to know your children and have fun with them. You needn't start formal schooling right away. It is far more important that you spend quality time together. You'll be surprised at the things you learn about each other. It also gives the kids time to adjust to not being a number any more. This period of time is known as De-Schooling. It is widely thought that you should de-school one month for each year the child was in school. Example; a 3rd grader should have four months of de-schooling. If you really feel the need to do some kind of schooling during this period, go to a store like Barnes and Noble and pick up a workbook or two for the children to work out of.
9. Homeschooling does not take nearly as much time as public school. A couple hours a day is all it takes in most cases. One on one is a much more efficient method of teaching. Studies have shown that out of the average 50 minute class, by the time you factor in taking attendance, quieting the class down, passing out and collecting papers etc., only about 10 minutes of learning takes place.
10.Be Prepared! Different people teach different subjects. Different children have different interests. Homeschoolers tend to have a much more in-depth knowledge of the subjects they study because they study subjects the children are interested in.
My first exposure to homeschooled children in an open environment (outside of the 3 family support group that we were loosely associated with) was when we signed my 5 year old son up to play T-ball with a homeschool sports league. Somehow, I ended up being 1st Base coach that day. I was chatting with the 5 year old 1st Baseman and the 5 year old runner on base when a small plane flew overhead. These two children got into a heated argument about whether the plane was a Cessna Model 6 or Model 8. These were 5 year olds, mind you.
If ever there was a time to be intimidated, this was it!
Until that very moment, I had been quite proud of the fact that my son knew his ABC's.
That evening, as I was lamenting what a terrible teacher I was and how far behind my son must be academically, my husband gently reminded me that our son, who was a motorcycle enthusiast at the time, could tell you the brand and sometimes model of a motorcycle just by its sound....and he knew that not through any formal schooling, but simply through his insatiable interest in them.
11. Homeschooled children tend to be self-taught.......given the chance. See the motorcycle reference above.
Keep the avenues of learning broad.
I'd like to share an observation that I've made over the years. I have known families who do school in a very formal way. Unlike their counterparts who casually insert learning into even the most mundane things, to them, school is an event. It takes place at a specific time and place. I've noticed the children from this environment tend to close their minds to learning if they are not in their specific "school mode."
Make sure your children know that learning can take place anywhere and at any time.
I've also known families where the mom is the sole teacher. For whatever reason, the family doesn't get out much. The children don't play sports nor do they have outside interests such as learning to play an instrument. All of their knowledge comes from their mother. I had the privilege of taking care of three children from a family like that once. We spent a little over an hour together while their parents were at a meeting with a lawyer. We took a walk through the woods. The children had absolutely no interest whatsoever in anything I had to say as I tried to show and teach them things. Once their mother returned to pick them up, the children were all full of questions for her. A lot of them were things I had tried to talk to the children about.
Make sure your children have people other than you to teach them things.
Relax and Have Fun With Your Children
You are in for the adventure of your lifetime!